Obstacles don’t have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don’t turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it. – Michael Jordan
I am thrilled to share a joyful update amidst the whirlwind of my endometriosis journey. As many of you know, I recently faced the heartbreak of my medical insurance declining to cover my much-needed laparoscopic excision surgery. The news was a devastating blow, and I found myself sinking into a sea of frustration and despair. The weight of endless pain and uncertainty grew heavier with each passing day.
But today, I stand before you with renewed hope and a glimmer of light shining through the darkness. It's all thanks to the unwavering support and advocacy of my gynaecologist. He has been my doctor for the past three years, witnessing the ups and downs of my endo battle, and understanding the urgency and severity of my condition.
After receiving the heart-wrenching rejection letter from my medical insurance, my husband and I were at a loss. The thought of going through another cycle of pain and disappointment was too much to bear. But my gynae refused to let us give up. He knew the importance of this surgery, not just for my physical well-being but also for my emotional and mental health. With genuine care and compassion, he took it upon himself to advocate for me, reaching out to the medical insurance company on my behalf.
I cannot begin to express the gratitude and relief my husband and I felt when we received the news that my gynae had managed to overturn the initial decision. The insurance company finally agreed to cover the laparoscopic excision surgery performed by the specialists we trust, and sent me a much more positive letter affirming the good news. The news brought tears of happiness and an overwhelming sense of validation. Knowing that my doctor believed in the necessity of this procedure and was willing to fight for it meant the world to me.
The journey between rejection and approval taught me these five invaluable lessons:
Advocate for yourself: I had reached a point where I felt like giving up, but my gynae's support reminded me of the importance of being my own advocate. It may be challenging, but we must persistently stand up for the treatment we need and deserve.
Having people in your corner: The outpouring of love and understanding from friends, family, and my endo community was a lifeline. Their unwavering support lifted me when I felt like drowning in hopelessness.
The importance of gap cover: While I am grateful for the insurance approval, there may still be financial shortfalls due to the out-of-network specialists and hospital being used. The importance of having gap cover became evident during this process.
Express your emotions: The emotional toll of this journey cannot be underestimated. Bottling up feelings can be detrimental, so finding safe spaces to vent and seeking emotional release is crucial for healing. Whether it be with a professional or loved ones.
Take downtime: After the initial rejection, I allowed myself a day of rest and introspection. Taking time to recharge and regain clarity was essential for crafting a plan moving forward. Taking a day off from my phone, social media and work was really beneficial for my healing.
As I sit here, reflecting on this rollercoaster journey of battling medical insurance rejections and finally getting the approval for my much-needed surgery, I can't help but feel a sense of relief mixed with a lingering sense of uncertainty. The joy of knowing that my gynae advocated for me and managed to convince the medical insurance to provide the cover I needed is overwhelming. I can't thank him enough for being in my corner, for understanding the urgency of my situation, and for fighting for my well-being when I was at my weakest.
The journey to this point has been filled with frustration, desperation, and countless tears. The rejection from the medical insurance felt like a punch to the gut, leaving me feeling helpless and abandoned. The process of seeking approval for a necessary procedure should not be this arduous, especially for those battling chronic illnesses like endometriosis. It shouldn't be a fight for basic healthcare needs, yet here we are, fighting tooth and nail for the medical attention we deserve.
But as much as this battle has left me scarred, it has also made me realise the strength I possess and the incredible support network I have around me.
Now, as I wait for the new surgery date of 8th August, I feel a mix of emotions. Relief that I finally have the approval, yet anxiety about the upcoming procedure and what the future holds. But I'm taking it one step at a time, one day at a time, and counting down to the day when I can start my healing journey. My gynae's unwavering advocacy has reignited my faith in the medical fraternity, and I am more determined than ever to be a part of driving endometriosis awareness.
To all those battling chronic illnesses, advocating for yourselves, and facing rejection and obstacles in your medical journey; I stand with you. You are not alone. Have faith, seek support, and keep the flame of hope burning bright. We will rise above the challenges, one step at a time, until the world recognises the significance of our illnesses, like endometriosis. Do not be afraid to demand the care and support that you deserve.
Thank you for being part of my journey, for offering your love, prayers, and encouragement. You have made a difference in my life, and I am forever grateful.
Signed
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